I am 75 years old and my husband, 84 has FTD. In case of our death, or my own, how can I legally protect our valuables inside my home from one relative who would most probably come inside before the others and take whatever he wanted for himself? I would like to have everyone have a fair share of all we have. My husband and I are all alone. The relatives are nice, pleasant, but seldom seen. In about 6 months we will be moving into an assisted living place; I have a bad heart and my husband also has multiple health issues. In our situation ... A lot can happen in 6 months! Thank you for your help!