After four years, I am the one who does it all. And I am realizing how much they took off of here from sorting her records while living out of state. I never stuck my nose in 6 years ago other than to call her 3 times a week. I was called by her doctor to come "rescue" her after 2 years of her under the brother's care. She says just let them have it. NOW they want to know where everything is of hers that I brought up with her. 5k in bank account and a twin bed and dresser, and a recliner, clothing was all she had left. Legally can I do anything on mother's behalf???