I am still working some and have some overnight travel involved. Calling to check on her is the only thing I can do at this point. She is not a danger to herself, but doesn't make good decisions. One day she let in 2 guys to demonstrate a vacuum cleaner... but won't let a hired person in to look after her.
She doesn't cook and forgets to eat. I leave things for her to put in the microwave but she doesn't follow instructions. She still drives and will go up to the corner to get a sandwich from Wendy's or Bojangles. She is 82.