I have 2 sons & I would be mortified for them to do such a thing as personal as that. My mother-in-law has 4 daughters & i son. Out of the 5 adult kids only 2 have ever helped out. One being my husband, the other his sister who treated her mom very roughly & to the point of me calling elder affairs who gave her a very stern talk. She would make coffee in the morning for her mom & change her diaper & leave with her mom's debit card & not come back until well after midnight leaving all care to her brother. I was so appalled when he told me & I said I felt that was not right by anyone's standards. SHAME on those 4 very spoiled, self-serving & self-centered so called daughter's.