My Mom has dementia and suffers from depression. She is not taking care of her personal hygiene and her house is a cluttered mess. It is getting worse. Piles on piles of things laying around. Sometimes it is old food. A health hazard. My dad is her primary caregiver, he gives her her medicine and gets her fed, but he is 87 and can only do so much. I am the only daughter I do what I can but I work full time and have dependents at home myself. I need help. Should I first go to her PC doctor and ask if she could prescribe a nurse coming in to help with possibly some insurance paying for it? Or should I go to the local Dept of Aging to see if they qualify for some sort of help? Or should I just go to a private Home Health Care Agency and pay out of pocket? What should my first step be? PLEASE help!