Divorce is forcing me to find my own place, which gives me a chance to move my parents from their place into one we can share and where I can live and more easily care for them.
Right now they are in a comfy rental and able to live alone so long as we help them shop and monitor their meds.
Mom has advancing Alzheimer's with very poor memory and some confusion, but is otherwise happy and pleasant. Dad is also slowing down a lot after a stroke last year.
Since Mom is destined for memory care eventually, I do believe I will be living with Dad at some point, but my concern now is whether the stress of moving them will trigger more decline in one or both.
This is a big decision for me because I will be locking myself into a lease for a year.