My mother has been evaluated by a physical therapist and receives physical therapy at home and by a physical medicine doctor and she's been told she should be using her walker not just a cane. But she isn't using it whenever she goes to other doctor appointments, the grocery store, out to restaurants with her brother. She uses the cane (my uncle tells me) and lurches about leaning on things with her other hand. She simply will NOT listen and has fallen several times but has bones as stubborn as she is so no serious damage so far. I just simply don't know what to do. I am many states away so my involvement is by phone only though frequent. To make matters worse my mother has become angry at my uncle and is resisting accepting his help and not being honest with him about problems she's having where she needs his assistance. What on earth can I do? I am no position to move her to my location at this time, so whatever I do must be accomplished with her where she is at home. I have talked with her doctor but the doctor cannot force her to do anything and my mother lies straight to the doctor's face about what she's doing.