My Mother has always been passive aggressive . And had a fearful respect of men. My Father had been abusive in the past. Anyway my question is why does my Mother yell and get abusive to me and not my Brother. When I tell him of these outbursts he turns it on me. He will say I have no problem with her! Just what is going on when you are over there! Once we got into an argument and he called me names and accused me of abusing my Mom and he was going to call someone about it! Please help! It happened again tonite and I don't think I can take much more.