My husband did call an attorney who was out of the office for two weeks, so he hasn't talked to him yet. He disagrees with the doctor who has told him he can no longer drive, handle financial or legal issues due to his dementia? He also is against my having P.O.A., even though he signed the P.O.A., witnessed by a different attorney. He's calling this a "take-over"; he wants to handle financial issues. He wants to know if we're "headed for divorce". I have the P.O.A. and the health care P.O.A.
Best of luck,