Hi there. Stubborn dad won't accept help. My parents are lovely people who have an old fashion marriage. My dad always controlled everything, my mom just went along. I don't judge it because they do love each other and come from another era. My Dad has had a stroke in 2013. He is frail and can't speak. My mom came to me today and asked for help on how we can get the tires changed and oil. This is HUGE. Doesn't sound it but, remember, my Dad controls everything. She is asserting herself and I want to make her successful. My dad has temper tantrums and INSISTS on doing everything. I honestly am at a loss. He's controlling, she is trying to take control because she needs to knew. How do I support her in moving forward without making it worse. My dad has severe panic attacks when he doesn't get his way to the point we worry about him having a heart attack. It's just awful. I'm confused and could use your wisdom. Thank you!