My 94yr old husband has had non-tremor Parkinson's for 12 years now. He cannot walk and uses a power scooter. We have aides until 10pm daily. However, the issue is that he is banging into walls and furniture with the scooter. When I tell him the scooter is not good for him anymore, he has threatened to cut me off financially, or at least alludes to it. We have a loving relationship otherwise, but this is not fair. Any ideas?
I can see why your DH would be angry at the potential loss of his freedom. Threats about money said in anger - I'd ignore this. Is he able to discuss this with REASON when calm?
You mention scootering around the home & building?
What are the safety & risk levels?
Is he endangering himself?
Is there risk he would hit a person or pet?
If no, or very low risk, is it possible to improve safety further?
* Remove non-essential furniture
* Simplfy his pathway inside
* Have the aide accompany him of in a foyer, or other shared spaces. Obviously you can't move walls.. can you add foam padding or buffers to his scooter?
I have seen my LO make a few small bumps in their own home. I have begun to worry too. Especially if they visit a private building & dint that - they could be liable for an expensive damage bill.
Best of luck, it's another version of the Do I take the car keys away problem.
Are you willing to push him around in a wheelchair, and are you physically able to?
If not, perhaps take away some of the furniture(have it put in the garage or a storage unit) so he has more of an open space to drive around in.