My mother (77) had a stroke 2 months ago. She is paralyzed on the left side, can't sit up, much less stand. Still at nursing facility. She has around 2 more months at the nursing facility, but there's not much hope of her walking. Since she can't yet sit up without max assist, I'm not even sure she'll be able to transfer which affects toileting as well. My father had a stroke 10 years ago and needs help with personal care. I live in another state and have been caring for them both since her stroke, dividing my day between him at their home and her at the nursing facility. The original plan was for them to come live with me and my family, hiring some nighttime help. If she doesn't improve. I'm not sure how to do everything. They don't qualify for Medicaid, but yet aren't rich.