My mother recently died, suddenly. My father is the one who has atrial fibrillation, heart failure, swelling in legs. Short of breath. My father is also an alcoholic. My mother was his enabler and she had narcissictic personality. I now cook for him and also do doctor visits etc... but it seems like he has gone berserk since my mother died. He is supposed to lead a quiet life with his legs elevated because his heart is so bad. Legs, get blisters etc. But he is doing more than ever. Working in his yard. Working on the pool. Planting flowers, watering flowers. He keeps hurting himself and because of being on blood thinners he has open wounds. Now he has one on his leg, that will not heal because of very bad circulation. It seems as if he is enjoying his freedom but I believe it will kill him. I remind him of what he is supposed to do but don't feel the need to push it. I figure he should just enjoy what life he has left in the way he wants. Am I wrong in thinking this way?