They place a camera in living room with view straight through to kitchen which also a part of my living space. I go there to cook and take showers. I clean, cook and feed my mother watch tv and talk with her.
The thing is I feel its a violation, I do not go down there fully dressed or with my wig on and while I am down there with my mother I am on the phone about different things that are personall.
Mean while my sister has blocked so many cable channels, ones she thinks I like. Most times I put certain stations on while I am cleaning and cooking and me and my mother laughs at whats said or she talks back the tv. Its entertainment. I watch what I want in my room or on my phone.
I recently made doctor apt for my mother to get referral for homecare and podiatrist referral.The apt was for the 14th of november and I noticed the camera downstairs on the 13th. I took it down. The next day another few channels were blocked, and the apt had been canceled.
My sister has me blocked by healthcare proxy from any medical information. I was out of work about 6 weeks from surgery and my first day back to work I come in to find my mother messing with her feet which are swollen and the nails are hard and long probably ingrown. I just flew off the handle and called to make apts. knowing that I can barely walk my self muchless struggle to get my mother dressed and out so I was calling to cancel anyway in the hope that APS would be taking over guardianship in the near future.
I told my nephew that I would not be a pawn in their plots and schemes. That I dont know what the purpose of the cameras are but its my choice not to be on camera and when my mother is on that floor where a camera is in the room that she spends a lot of time in and now over the stairwell, it will be their responsiblity to feed her .
I always have snacks in the fridge and on table. Sometimes she makes big messes. I am the only one who changes her bed linen. Sit and feed her, clean her environment and deal with what ever pest is in season. I have high blood pressure, issues with my knees and hips and I am just plain tired.
I went through a deep depression and self realization during the 6 week period out was out of work with on 40hr of sick time. I still have not addressed the cleaning issues that have built up since I was out and unable to do things over the last few months.
Please help, any suggestions, corrections, opinions will be appreciated
Please give advise.