I’m not sure if I’m asking for suggestions or if I’m just venting. My 95 yr old father is in memory care with dementia/Alzheimers. Mom passed a year ago. I visit him at least 6days a week when I’m in town and have just recently given myself permission to leave guilt at home when my husband and I take vacations. Dad can be just fine one day and then cry and feel sorry for himself the next. I know he is lonely and still missing mom but his continual requests to move (he doesn’t know where he would go and seems to be stuck on the ranch he grew up on and sold in 1991) and his ideation concerning asking a previous resident assistant who is in her early 40’s to marry him, are taking their toll on me. Is there anything I can do to help him adjust and find some contentment with his life as it is? Thanks for being there to listen.