She was diagnosed with Dementia in Oct. 2017 ( she's had it longer than that but that's when she finally went to dr.) So we made the decision that I would transfer with my job and live with my mom because she didn't want to move to TX. I'm single with no children. I moved here June 1 2018 ...drove out here with my 3 cats and left the good life... but since I've been here she has gotten worse and I already have POA and POA over health and she has already signed over successor trustee to me. In the POA it states I am able to get compensation for care giving ...I remember when the attorney told her that I was able to get 1% of whatever she was worth ( she does have money ) and she was fine with it but now she's been in the untrusting mode and nothing is wrong with her and doesn't want to help me ...yet she has misplaced her debit card several times and I don't have the money to buy groceries and take care of any other household things that may go wrong , she always thinks she has money in her wallet that is missing...hallucinates sometimes during the day and is delusional at night making up stories that my friends ( which all my friends are in TX )are swinging her cats around...I don't have any friends that aren't animal lovers any way. She thinks I'm taking food up to my brother in the attic sometimes and he's in Colorado, has called the sherriff at least 3 times since I've been here...once because she wanted me to leave. We used to get along great but this disease has really turned her mean. She is on Namenda ...started at 7 mg and then stopped it about a month ago because she didn't think she needed it..until I finally told her if she didn't take it that I would be in charge so she's back on it (14 mg ) but is still bad at night time. I already know I can go to her bank and give them POA paperwork but she will no longer be able to access her acct...she doesn't drive or do computers but I have a feeling if I do it she will be very upset and probably think I'm stealing from her so I don't know what to do. I really didn't think I would want or need her money for care giving but it has turned out way more difficult and stressful and depressing than I ever thought it would be... I have boxes unopened downstairs and basically everything I need or use is in my one room including my 3 cats because she has cats also and they don't get along plus all 3 of my cats have gotten sick since I've been here and I'm sure it's from the stress of moving and not much room for them to move around in my room either. I can't even keep anything in her house outside of my room because she will lose it or misplace it or throw it away and even though I don't have to pay rent ( her home is paid for) I just can't catch up. Any suggestions?