Mom thinks his time is too valuable to take her on errands etc when he comes. I live next door to her and am around all the time.
We have family in our town, she'd rather go to lunch or out for social gatherings with them and rely on me for errands, dr appts etc.
She doesn't think we need anyone from an agency; someone who's reliable, vetted and trustworthy.
The family she has asked to help aren't reliable to show up.