My husband is obsessing over who our cat and dog belong to, where did I take them, that I am planning to kidnap them. He demands that they be with him or that he knows where they are every minute of the day and during the night-constantly calling out to them. He holds tight to them if they do come to him, either by holding onto their collars or just holding them tightly. Our sweet dog is becoming afraid and nervous and my assurances do not help at all. I have begun putting our dog in the bedroom during meals because he insists on feeding him things that are not at all good for him-especially milk at every meal, and garlic, and spicy foods and bread and his own dish to put ice cream in. He will sneak the food under the table like a toddler hiding something. Every family member has tried to stop this at gatherings but he just stares at them, handing food to our dog anyway. We are an animal loving family, but our dog is the only one allowed to be fed at the table and this is creating a health issue as well as conflict even as we realize that this is another obsessive behavior.