Long and short of it is, she's got COPD and CHF. Her lungs have filled with fluid over and over, and she uses a walker. She does not like to listen to me if it concerns her medicine, or anything else, and tells me not to tell doctors things (I do anyway, because it's her health).
She's just had a three week, back to back, stay at the hospital. This last time she was unconscious and I was unable to awaken her, so I tried to get my mom, and we tried to shake her. After realizing she wasn't going to get up, we called 911. Third week in the hospital.
They want her in rehab. *I* want her in rehab because if I'm honest I just can't do it anymore. I work full-time, my parents try as best they can but when she refuses or tells you 'oh I did that already', it's kind of hard to do anything for her. And we're only three people, we're not a fully staffed care center.
But she refuses because she sees it as we're tossing her out in the cold. She called me today and accused me of putting her in and said 'what did it hurt' when I said she wasn't waking up and was unconscious for three days.
But they say she's in her right mind! Sure! I'm sure a logical person would act that way!!
Sorry, I'm sore about this. Anyway, what can I do? If we take her home, she is going to get worse and we'll call 911 again, and it's a never-ending cycle. She's not getting better, and I need the help.