Been caregiving with my wife for 2 years for her grandmother. We gave up our house and life to move in with grandma after grandfather passed. The reason for this is my wife's mother stole what was left of their retirement in the end and for years before, slowly drained the funds constantly asking for money to which grandfather couldn't say no. Mother is still on the loose and it was put upon my wife and I to take care of grandmother with whatever pieces were left. No help from any family because all they did was take money so can't be trusted. So hard on our marriage right now trying to make the best of it but I'm no longer working for my wife and I, I'm working to take care of grandmother. It all seems so very unfair and cruel to have all this dropped on my wife and we're still young enough that we should be enjoying our lives instead of putting it on hold.