This was suppose to have happened two weeks ago, but it did not happen because her son refused to drive her from his house in pa. To my house in ny. I can’t refer to him as my brother because our relationship has died. He had my mom living in his house while she was rehabilitating from a broken arm, broken shoulder and broken leg, after tripping over a dehumidifier left outside her bedroom in his hall. He and his wife tried covering that story up by saying the dog was in the way but my mom told a different story. She wouldn’t put a claim in with his homeowners insurance either to help cover her medical bills. Huge bills!
After her son said he has had enough of her, it was decided me and my husband would take my mom in, but he refused to drive her up. This past
Monday she was admitted to the hospital for fluid around her heart and is taking a pill to help rid her of the fluid. Was to be discharged today but her son is not showing up to get her! Hospital keeping her an extra day.
He won’t go tomorrow either. Told hospital he is working.
My definition is, he is abandoning her.
Me and my husband will get her tomorrow because we got a call from the hospital to come get her.
Why can’t something be done about her son refusing to get her? He’s working? Really? That’s a valid excuse? His wife wants nothing to do with my mom, she hates my mom.
Anyone have a situation like this?
And ps, my mom is the one who is 100% blind from a drug reaction treating her for wet macular. That’ll be another issue, suing the drug company.
It’s all too much for me. I feel alone. I feel so uneducated about all this stuff and I really dont think I can be a caregiver. You all offered great advice a few weeks ago but I still feel overwhelmed. Very lost. Very sad!