I would love to have my Love at home instead of at a Care facility. First, because I would miss him terribly. Second, because they will eat us alive and I will struggle with my own life. I am being honest here guys...I am 17 years younger than my Partner. Everything we have we worked so hard for. Now, because of the hard work and saving we will be forced to pay every penny of his care outside of home. These facilities would eat up everything we have in no time at all. Can I just hire help and keep him at home?