My MIL has Frontal lobe dysfunction, dementia and now a 2cm mass has been found in her right mid lung. Her Pulmonologist says she can not have surgery or chemo. Doesn't think radiation would be a good thing for her either. She is 85, sleeps about 20 hours a day, weak and unable to turn over in bed due to size and weakness. I am her only caregiver. My husband, her son, works 2 hours away so I am with her 24/7 except for 2 hrs Tues and Wed nights. I want to know for sure if she has cancer and her prognosis. Dr. treated me like I was being self centered to want an idea of whether she has a year or two or many more. Am I being self centered to know what is coming ?