How do I get paid for being my loved ones caregiver?

I don't know what Ar choices is, Tarina. As to be paid as caregiver I would go up to our search bar here at AC in the top blue timeline on the right just to the left of your avatar picture. Type in "getting paid as caregiver" and you will see prior answers given. This is a complex question best addressed in your own state, by you. Only you know what options exist as far as mom's finances and ability to pay you, and only you know what her insurance is. If you are expecting federal government payment you have tripped into Medicaid territory and whether or not your mom is approved for Medicare, and whether or not your state funds programs for caregivers.

I wish you good luck. These things are difficult to ferret out so ask EVERYONE from doc to any social workers you can find. Call also your local council on aging to find out how to research such questions. Wishing you good luck.