Looking for private care to come in and help us out around 20 hours a week, suggestions?

Here's some good info right from the Care Topics section of the home page of this website: https://www.agingcare.com/local/in-home-care Also, please go the the Labor website or Elder Care section in Health & Human Services for your county/state to read up on the laws that surround paying for privately hired caregivers (those who don't come from an agency). If you hire privately, be sure to have a written contract. Consult with an accountant and/or elder law/estate planning attorney for best practices to make sure you have yourselves protected. If you have a Nextdoor.com forum for your area, this is an excellent source of reviews, recommendations and referrals from your actual local neighbors, and it is not anonymous. I use it all the time when seeking opinions on services.

Call local caregiving companies for help. Or just use the search feature to find care on this site.