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ajjrcair Asked March 2019

Mom is nasty to nurses in nursing home. Can we have them give her a tranquilizer?

NeedHelpWithMom Mar 2019
Where is the OP?

NeedHelpWithMom Mar 2019
No offense, ajjrcair,

Please fill in the gaps.

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NeedHelpWithMom Mar 2019
Isthisreallyreal,

Oh, how true! We can dream or fantasize anyway! Can you imagine nurses with blow darts or stun guns? Geeez! In exreme cases...just saying. You and I better shut up or we will be in trouble!!! Haha

Kole1820 Mar 2019
I think that might be a little unethical. I'm a caregiver by profession, and have the pleasure of handling some of our high needs clients. I have been hit, kicked, spat it, scratched, clawed, had my hair pulled, walkers thrown at me, the lot. Most of this occurred while working as a private caregiver in a nursing home for a memory care.It sucks sometimes and is hard, but we are trained how to handle it and it takes a lot of pressure off of care staff. It might be something to look into. It would be considered non-skilled home health.
Countrymouse Mar 2019
"Non-skilled" - !

I'm sure you're correct, I'm not arguing. Just, isn't that ridiculous?
BarbBrooklyn Mar 2019
The thing is, the elder needs to be evaluated by a psychiatric/behavioral specialist/ team. At that point, appropriate meds can be trialed.
NeedHelpWithMom Mar 2019
Yep, Barb.

Place it all in the right hands. So true.
JoAnn29 Mar 2019
I think the poster just wasn't sure of the word to use.

First, if this is something new, she should be checked for a UTI. I found that the NH usually suggests something that may calm her. You can ask the Director of Nursing if something can be given.

needtowashhair Mar 2019
I thought this was just standard procedure in NHs. I've seen a lot of people pretty zombied out in NH.
cwillie Mar 2019
At one time I would have agreed with you but now I know that a lot of the zombie effect is due to a person's health, not their medications... sadly it's just the way they are.
Countrymouse Mar 2019
How, nasty?
Any idea why?
Has the NH suggested this?
What else has been tried to cope with your mother's challenging behaviour?

cwillie Mar 2019
Just knocking somebody out with a tranq would be using a chemical restraint and is not acceptable except for short term emergency situations - ask for a care plan meeting, it will take the whole team to analyze her behaviour and offer solutions, which may indeed include medications.

NeedHelpWithMom Mar 2019
I don’t know how that works. I suppose others have knowledge about this type of situation.

What exactly do you mean by tranquilizer? Something to completely knock her out? Guess I am envisioning an animal being tranquilized on a PBS documentary or something. Or are you referring to a mild sedative? Give more details.

How is she behaving with the nurses? Does she have valid complaints? Inquire/investigate further if you don’t know all the details.
Isthisrealyreal Mar 2019
I wish we could do that PBS animal thing sometimes. Some days it feels like a very viable solution 😏

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