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ignatz13 Asked October 2017

The nursing home said Mom had too much money in her account and it was standard practice that they buy a burial policy to take care of the excess amount. Is this normal procedure in a nursing home?

I just found a life insurance/burial policy that was taken out in my mother's name about a month before she passed away. The beneficiary was listed as one of the nursing home employees. I contacted the insurance company and they wouldn't dicuss the policy with me as I was not the beneficiary and referred me to the funeral home. I explained that my mother had dementia when the policy was taken out and no one had notified me about it and that she and my father both had pre-paid burial plans with another funeral home. The funeral home said she had too much money in her account and it was standard practice by the nursing home to buy a burial policy to take care of the excess amount in her account or DHS would take it. The policy was for an initial payment of $700 and 10 remaining payments of $700...and it doesn't appear that the signature is anywhere close to my mother's. Something just doesn't seem to be on the up and up to me. Is this a normal procedure in a nursing home?

ignatz13 Oct 2017
I'm afraid it's a little late...my mother passed away in 2009 and I just found the policy in some of her things that I had never went through. I don't understand that if she had more money than she should have had, why not contact me instead of buying a policy she didn't need. I am the closest surviving kin.

Margaret916 Oct 2017
Absolutely contact an attorney. There may be some fine print in a contract you or your mother signed that gives them the ability to do this, but get good counsel.
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Margaret

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GardenArtist Oct 2017
Ignatz, while you're at it, place a fraud alert and security freeze on your mother's credit, then order the credit report immediately. Whoever forged her signature might have committed other frauds.

I wouldn't contact the nursing home just yet, until you have more documentation. But do get an attorney ASAP, and have him/her contact the life insurance company to stop them from paying out any further funds.

Hugemom Oct 2017
No, it’s not. It’s probably also against the law. You need to contact a lawyer immediately. Someone has stolen your mkther’s money.

Guestshopadmin Oct 2017
N o no.

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