Recently I have been struggling with myself when I want to call my mom in the nursing home. My mom has Alzheimers/dementia and when I call her she has trouble speaking and of course remembering things. She often get really nervous and upset. I always hear noises in the background. It seems all of this upsets my mom and therefore I feel like my calls are more harm than good. I know my mom wants to talk to me, but it seems we can't have a successful conversation due to all the aforementioned. What should I do..,,, not call....?