my grandfather is 77 and he had bladder cancer he had the tumor removed chemo and radiation and still had his bladder removed while in the hospital had2 heartattacks had a triple bypass 4 days after removing his bladder just to be told that the cancer has spread to his lymphnodes i just need to someone to tell me what can be done to help he dont want chemo or radiation cause it just makes sick all the way up til you die ( i know it helps alot of people i aint saying that) is this going to kill him scared he has done everything and now what
I am so sorry to hear what you are going father. Having a grandparent that has cancer is a scary thing to go through. Trust the doctors and know that they are trying to do the best for him. Let him chose what medical care he wants for himself. Most importantly just be there for him. Good luck with everything from the AgingCare.com family.