i dont understand why he is going out of his way to tell people ( that were my friends, now wont talk to me or look at me) that i lied about having cancer? im 44 they removed both my overies and did a full laproscopic hysterectomy and he leave me notes saying he talked to my doc and the doc said i never had cancer. if mykid got better after surgery id be so happy ! so why is he going so far out of his way to tell people i lied about cancer? hes really popular and thats ok. im no threat to him, so why is he telling people i lied? if im a liar, then wheres my emmy for best actress? he tried to get a hold of my doc, who of course blew him off,i show him papers from the hospitol, i feel lucky that the surgery got most of it, and im now past the surgical menapause that went with it. no help from anybody at all.but whatever, why is he going so far out of his way to tell everyone i lied about such a horrible thing as this? its bad enough im yelled at and accused of putting him in the poor house when he goes out to dinner 2-3 nights every week,my brother, who did abuse him, he never said word one against, so why me? when i moved here i ran his credit report after finding credit cards around the house he knew nothing about, i canceled 7 of them and got his finaces back on track. ive cleaned this house so you can actually breath and it looks good,when i got sick ( excrutaing back pains led me to the emergency room where they did tests and found swollen overies that were pressing up against other organs,almost ruptured my gallbladder) he did nothing, he actually stepped over my body when i collapsed in the hall and went to bingo.after my surgery he dropped me off at the bottom of our huge driveway and left me to fend for myself, including cleaning the trash that had been in my room before my surgery, fixing my own meals with no food in the house,( i drove myself to jackinthebox) and careing for my dog.ok again, im strong. so why is he doing this? im so sick of this crap, i never signed up for this mess!! everyone thinks im so horrible, but they dont see him at home.