So many adult children suffering. Myself, gave birth to a totally disabled child, loved her every moment, all 31 years. My mom..release me..

No, I’m good.
My husband died in front of me when I was 29.

At same time, found out my daughter had “problems”.
Worked in the medical field next 30 years, raising 2 children.
Just have seen a lot.
Now, in my older years, Mom is on me......2 brothers who have skated for 40+ years.
I have every right to feel the way I do.

So sorry, looks like ur post got lost in the jumble. I assume you are venting? If you want some feed back, please give us more info.