I forgot to add that my mom is 86 she has social security and a pension from my dad (he passed 20 years ago). She lives in a duplex that she rents. No assets. My brother moved out of state years ago to get away from her and we haven't heard from him in 7 years. Is this not dysfunctional or what. My son has a temper and throws things which is very nerve racking. Thanks for listening. By the way I have social security only which I am in poverty level range. I can support myself but not my son.