My mother has some short term memory loss but is still very mentally competent. She shares everything with me. I call her daily as I live a distance away. She lives in assisted living in MI. My sister has DPOA and has meetings as needed with the doctor but even though my mother has expressed interest in attending these meetings and I have expressed similar interest my sister "insists" on meeting alone with the doctor.
Isn't the POA expected to carry out the wishes of their loved one? Neither my mother or myself wish to "rock the boat" but I am frustrated. Is my sister misusing her POA?