My husband has been home from the hospital for two months after having a stroke in Jan. Before his stroke we talked about traveling (USA), but since he's come home with a feeding tube I don't want to think about traveling with all his meds not to mention his cans of Jevity, which he has to have four times a day. When i go on vacation I want to relax, not take care of him. Don't get me wrong, I'm not complaining--well i guess i am--but when I took my marriage vows I meant them! ...In sickness and health. meant to me I do without what I want to help him get better, but I still would like to go to Emmetsburg, Iowa, see the Black Hills and just wander around In the Dakotas. Since I can't drive, and neither can he now. Will I ever get to Emmetsburg, Iowa or the Black Hills. Will the tube ever come out or does he have to have it in the rest of his life. He has aphasia and any water he drinks has to be thickened and given to him with a spoon. his meds. I mix in with chocolate pudding. I know I signed up for betteror for worse, but how much worse could it get?