She needs help, even though she doesn't think so, but she looks to me and others for answers, but we need information on what to do? My MIL has 3 kids, 2 of which do nothing, and one is my husband, and he actually cares about what happens to his mom. MIL lives in our home with us but she is too far gone, so I have been calling to see about 24 / 7 in home care to the tune of over $16,000 month, and I have also checked on NH care. What a mess. It would be nice if people would call back when they say that they will. Now, what do we do? I have suggested an elder law attorney.