You will not make the hospice decision. That decision is made by hospice when an evaluation is completed. Call and request an evaluation by a non-profit provider.
I'm not sure what you are asking? Most hospice care is provided in the home so if it is a question of your feeling unable/unwilling to provide that level of care that is different, although there are hospice facilities they generally only accept people who only have days or weeks left.
*Hospice is not only non-profit, too. I found an excellent company on Yelp for my dad after having to fire Vitas, another nationwide company. Check reviews when choosing a company.