My Mama died in Sept and she was Dad's caregiver. We started the process to get Dad in the VA system so he can eventually go to a VA Nursing Home for free. After she died, I was living in their home in Illinois and planned to be there until Dad was no longer able to be safe there. Younger Bro wanted me to go home to Tennessee. 6 crazy hours away. I've suspected bullying and manipulation. Brother is an angry sort. I have POAs for health care and property. Bro and I are co-executors of the will. Bro is NOT HAPPY that I get to make decions....and things are leaving the house. "Hey, Dad, can I have your guns and tools?" " Sure, Son." What advice do y'all have? I've been on this site about 3 months.