Ok, I’ll try to make this as short and simple as possible. My dad is 83 and has bowel incontinence and my wife and I end up having to clean him up and change him all the time, which is pretty disgusting most of the time. He cannot stand or walk, but can sit-up, roll over, and do board transfers to and from his bed. My question is this: If he can operate a television remote control then why can’t he wipe his own butt and spare us of having to do it all the time? He’s been diagnosed as having some early onset dementia, but I don’t see how that is preventing him from feeding himself, operating his wheelchair, etc. please explain if I’m just not comprehending the reason as to why he would be incapable.