My mum has Alzheimer's. She lives in an over 55s village, where she is safe and loved. She has a carer to take her shopping every Friday. I give her $200 one week and $100 the next that is for food and incidentals only. I pay all her bills/medication etc. She is on a pension, so there is no more money. She can spend $300 in a week. She doesn't understand when the money runs out. I don't know how to stop it, I explain that I have no more money to give her. She has now started to call me a thief, a spy, I invade her privacy, taken her licence off her and control her life. I now dread answering the phone or visiting, because nothing is nice anymore and all I get is abuse. I'm doing my best to make sure she is safe, loved, gets everything she needs etc. but her venom is driving me to crazy. I don't want mum to have this, she is 72, and I don't know how much longer I can keep "my chin up", as everyone who has a fleeting hour with her can tell me. Does anyone have any advice on how they dealt with finances?