I'm 62 and lost my husband to Lewy Body dementia as well as stage 4 cancer. I'm coming up on the one year anniversary of his death, March 31st. I retired at age 60 to care for him and I was able to keep my promise to him and keep him at home. He passed in our house. He hallucinated the last year and was bed ridden the last few months. He would reach into his diaper and pull out hands full of feces and would have it literally everywhere. My main goal was to keep him as clean and shaven just as he would have wanted. I can say that I totally lost it with him a few times....especially when he would stiff-arm the bed rail and I couldn't turn him over....OMG!!! I weight train and am very strong so I got it done, but I'm full of guilt for the way I went off on him a few times and had to literally slap his hand off the bed rail to turn him over to clean him. How do I ever forgive myself?? I feel so guilty. Thank you!