I have found the one of the hardest things to do is find good help. We are fortunate that we have resources; however, finding good help is hard. hard. Interviewing, asking the correct questions and trust are huge in getting others to help. It just does not happen with a snap of your fingers. The turnover is quick also. How do you not get frustrated? It's like running a business but with worse it involves a loved one. If anyone has any suggestions I am open. I have been doing yoga to keep me from have too much anxiety, That works for me. I am also raising my own kids and have a husbands that helps. it's not easy at all.