My mom wants to be put in a nursing home. My dad doesn't want to go, but he wants to be with my mom. If she goes, he wants to be with her. I am trying to keep her at home, but she thinks she will get better care at the home. I feel like a bad daughter by putting them in there. I keep telling mom of ways to make her life easier at home, but she won't listen. Things could work out at home if she would quit with the I can't attitude. It is her mental state that is the challenge.
Should I just let it go and do what she wants?