My husband has dementia and is now in diapers, especially at night. I also have pads underneath him. Some nights the diapers work beautifully but some nights the pads are wet, his t-shirt is wet and the diaper is almost dry! I check the elastic around his legs when I put the diaper on but figure I must be doing something wrong or I wouldn't be getting this outcome. I buy the best quality diapers I can find and they seem to fit him perfectly. I can't figure this out but maybe someone else can. Any suggestions?