My mother had a stroke this year and suffers from Alzheimer's. The doctor is alleged to have said that he will declare her incompetent but decided to give the family the option to.
One brother is concerned that if the doctor puts her in a nursing home, the state will seize her estate.
The other brother is concerned that if the first brother gets the power of attorney he can seize the estate for himself.
As for my mother she does not want to be committed.
What do I do or where do I start?