My husband had knee replacement surgery on 6/21. He came home yesterday (even though I felt he should have stayed another night). He’s been on the sofa since. He has no upper body strength and cannot stand. He’s too big for me to lift. Our insurance declined in-home therapy and the hospital never got back to us on outpatient therapy. I’m so frustrated that he won’t try. I know it hurts. He was so much in agreement and willing with the PT at the hospital but since he got home he thinks laying around will eventually help him get up and walk. Help!
Please don't injure yourself attempting to help him stand!
Bloodflow promotes healing. Blood clots are a real threat.
What reasons does he give to not move?
My ideas start with;
* Pain? Take the meds prescribed (many don't).
* Stiffness? Gentle bending.
* Swollen? Ice.
* Tired? Take a nap.
It's awful to be 'The Nag' 😣
What solutions can HE come up with to overcome HIS obstacles HIMSELF? (It is HIS new knee afterall)
I don't know your Husband's age, other medical issues or pain tolerance of course. But my next ideas would be;
Today - Him: Walk to & sit at the table for all meals. Physio exercises as prescribed then ice & rest. On repeat.
Today - yourself: Call the hospital. Explain. He will not be the 1st patient to only have motivation for a 'professional'. If instay rehab is not an option, ask to get home visits PT set up. (See if your health insurance covers this or pay if possible). Then he can move to outpatient rehab sessions when he is a little more recovered.
Good luck!
Why didn't I know about this during our extended lockdowns? I could be shaped like that now 🤣🤣🤣