My mother has sit in a recliner chair 24/7 for at least 10 years except to use the potty and go to dinner table when prompted. Over the last 2 weeks she is insisting on going back to the bedroom whenever she has been agitated at anyone. She has also started throwing things when she gets mad. My 83 year old father is her caregiver but fell in January 10th and broke his femur/hip. He just got home last week and this all started about 2 weeks ago. We had a caregiver come in for a few days and their personalities didn't work out so we had to let her go but we think she may have insisted a few times that Mom go take a nap and that may be what started this. She is frail and has a bad back and a neck infusion so we know it is uncomfortable for her to lay there plus she urinates in her Depend often. Once she gets back to the bed it can take up to 4-6 hours to get her to come out so she wets everything. Has anyone had this problem or something similar. It is getting almost too hard to keep her at home and she just screams she wishes she could die and doesn't want to be there but in 30 minutes she has forgotten about it and is asking for food. HELP, our father is not willing to even talk about finding a place for her and insist his children can continue to help him until he gets back on his feet but truthfully we are worn out and can not take anymore time off from our jobs. Any suggestions?