Mom has been trying to put diagnosis off for two years. COVID hasn't helped and decline has been severe. We are now in agressive behaviors and with short term and long term memory loss. I have been bobbing and weaving on my own though the anger and crying bouts, making the meals, doing the shopping, paying her bills, wiping her behind, cleaning up the messes.
My siblings have acused me of stealing and taking advantage of our mother which is so far from reality. I was making a very good salary before this current fall and I was the only one willing and able to do the care. They bark orders to me via text while trying to say I am not mentally fit to take care of a plant.
I have joined this forum to get support in a situation where I feel quite alone, and attacked by my own family in a heartbreaking way.