Thank you for your concern about my mom and try to move her to assisted living, but as far as the nurse on staff is concerned is that my mom is doing ok.

Your mum is in a relatively safe place and there's a staff nurse keeping an eye out. That's good.

So keep living for yourself - road trips, holidays, meeting up with friends. Visit your mum once a week, tops. Less when you need a break.

Take care.

Gary, good for you! Keep taking care of your own needs and you will be a better advocate for your mom.

Nothing wrong with ground hog day for someone that doesn't know it is same old same old.

For context, your original post from 2024: https://www.agingcare.com/questions/my-mother-is-94-and-just-went-for-a-memory-test-last-week-the-results-were-13-out-of-30-the-doctor-s-488852.htm So glad to learn you are starting to make yourself a priority! Don't stop!