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NancyAnne Asked February 14, 2025

How can my wife, who is bed ridden and in hospice, get an eye exam and new glasses?

My wife is suffering extreme pain in her hips, legs, & neck, on oxygen, with congestive heart failure, incontinence, and a touch of dementia. She just turned 79 is alert , but sleeps a lot. We're married 45 yrs. been together 48. An avid reader & crossword junkie, she is now having problems seeing. I've looked everywhere, starting with her Hospice nurse ,who said anyone over 75 under their care, there's nothing they can do. Any suggestions?

JoAnn29 Feb 14, 2025
She may not be able to see well because of her Dementia. My Mom was an avid reader but she could not read a book anymore once she had Dementia. And crosswords, forget that.

Call a nursing home near you. See if there is an eye doctor that visits their residents. Doctors don't need all the equipment to help determine what strength glasses are needed. My nephew had glasses at 8 months. When I asked the doctor how they could determine his prescription he said by how the light hits the eye. I think its the back if the eye. Call her eyedoctor and tell him whats going on. Maybe he can give you the strength of reader that may help.

AlvaDeer Feb 14, 2025
Get her some simple magnifying glasses level 5.00 from Amazon. This will help with the puzzles. She doesn't really require other glasses. You can also purchase nifty magnifying lamps that she can have put onto her over bed table and that are easily adjusted. Look for magnifying thing online at Amazon to give yourself some ideas of availability for things to help.

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funkygrandma59 Feb 14, 2025
Just invest in several different strength reading glasses from Walmart, CVS or the like, and have her try them to see which one works best for her and then take the rest back.

lealonnie1 Feb 14, 2025
I guess you'd need to figure out medical transportation to get her to the eye exam appointment. Or buy her some readers at the store. For an eye exam, she needs to sit in the chair and to tell the optometrist which lenses are clearer, A or B, C or D.

Good luck to you.

KNance72 Feb 14, 2025
Walmart and other stores have eye exams .

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