Did not mean to try to deceive anyone by third party or whatever. I was afraid nursing home would recognize my email. Any advice?

Your last sentence sums it up for me. I’m confused!

Good luck with your situation, whatever it is and whoever you are.

You still are writing in the 3rd person. If this is the daughter than write as the daughter writing about a parent. If this is the resident, then write as the resident.

The problem is that we have asked questions without being answered. You just repeated what was in other emails.

You started posting over a year ago and now have a debt of 10k. Surprised you have not be asked to transfer by now. This is a question we really can't answer. This is between you and the Adminstrator. I really don't see how you can stay were you are and not pay. Unless your children have signed something saying they are responsible for your debt, they should not pay.

No, family will not be stuck with balance owed. Thank you for clarifying a little bit more. The more you can tell us about the whole situation, the more we can help. They can't get blood from a stone, and they can't garnish SS wages. You need to meet with the social worker to go over your options.